Time Consciousness
Being on time is very important. Many Americans keep a schedule and may seem rude or disruptive if you are late.
- Call if you are going to be late.
- Cancel appointments at least one day before.
This is especially true in the business and academic worlds, where it reflects upon you as a professional or as a student. Going to a business meeting 5 minutes late can give a bad impression.
Of course, this strictness does not apply quite the same to social gatherings—like parties at someone's home. You are not expected to arrive exactly on time, although you should try to stay within a 15-30 minutes of the agreed-upon meeting time when going to a large party.
When formally invited to someone's home for dinner or a party, it is polite to bring a gift (such as a bottle of wine or dessert) and thank your host or hostess for the party when you leave. It is also a good idea to thank your hosts again the next time you talk to them or see them. You will notice that Americans regularly thank each other for almost everything.
If you go to a public event (such as a movie, play, sporting event, or religious ceremony, for example), arrive at least a few minutes before the scheduled time.